As much as it is swept by grief, life is washed with joy embedded in the simple pleasures of the Universe.
Hold your face to the sun, I tell my dear friend caught in the throes of mental anguish.
To my thirty- something friend fatigued by the disappointments of corporate life, I say throw caution to the wind and pursue your heart’s desire. Create your summer palace because you are the one most suited to do so.
As for me, coming to terms with loss and stepping onto new pathways this summer, I tell myself: go find yourself in the sea, holding onto e.e. cummings’ words, for whatever we lose (a you or a me), it is ourselves we find in the sea. One of my dearest friends offers guidance by her example of stepping outside of an unfulfilling marriage to start anew, setting up home by the sea and thus fulfilling a deep yearning of the soul even within this challenging time. Her message is one I share with you: Live the life and take time to find peace. These past months have certainly strengthened my conviction that within despair lies the magic of rising up and engaging in the potential of new opportunities; of seizing hope from the deep recesses of the dreams we harbor. As we journey through the Circle of Life, we recognize that as much as it is swept by grief, life is also washed with joy.
Time spent at the beach this summer has been the awakening of hope and journeying towards fulfilling new dreams. So I say to you my friends..
Step boldly. It’s time to see what you can do!
We do have choices as to how we react to nearly everything that happens to us. Choosing joy, happiness is a choice. We see people who have everything given to them, but remain miserable, people with little in terms of the material, who share, care, remain joyous. I agree with you whole heartedly.